Experts on romance say for a happy marriage there has to be more than a passionate love. For a lasting union, they insist, there must be a genuine liking for each other. Which, in my book, is a good definition of friendship.- Marilyn Monroe

You can't have a happy family if you don't have a happy marriage.- Jeremy Sisto

“Marriages are the very important factor in life and it needs to be balanced tactfully. There are multiple factors that work well or go wrong in the recipe of a happy marriage and the key ingredients are more or less same and its requirement in every marriage is essential to taste the true flavours of the happy marriage.”

Here are some of the key ingredients which are required for happy marriage,

TRUST: Marriage cannot exist without trust. It is the most basic ingredient of any close relation.

FRIENDSHIP: If the couple is friends they are comfortable enough to share their thoughts, understand each other’s feeling, discuss matters and recognise each other’s importance.

SELFLESSNESS: The couple should be selfless and think of his/her mate. Happy Marriage changes ‘me’ to ‘us’.

ACCEPTANCE: There are going to be ups and downs in life and all these phases one seeks for constant support and encouragement. The couple who stays together in misfortunes have

RESPECT EACH OTHER’S PRIVACY: There are sometimes when the couple needs self-time, adhering to one's interest, hobbies and other self-activity makes one make happy. It is truly said one who is happy will also make an effort to bring happiness everywhere.

UNDERSTANDING: Understanding your partner is essential and taking care of the matters which change her moods from happiness to worries enhance the spirit of happy marriage.

HELPING HANDS FOR EACH OTHER: When one is tired or at ill-bed, the other should take charge and be the helping hand to comfort the partner or bring the smile or have a smooth flow of the relationship.

FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT: Both husband and wife should earn and established in their work or else have the potential to be economically independent.

COOPERATIVE: The couple should have cooperation and help each other and solve the matter together by discussing and listening to the viewpoints of both sides and thereafter coming into conclusion.

SACRIFICE: When married, life demands compromise and sacrifice in each and every step for the happiness of others.

The happiest marriage I can picture or imagine to myself would be the union of a deaf man to a blind woman.- Samuel Taylor Coleridge 


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